Q. I was baptized about three years ago but I fell away the past year and have had a hard time remaining faithful. My New Year’s resolution is to give up worldly things and live a better Christian life. Do you have any helpful suggestions?
-Anonymous
A. My July 2008 article addresses working on a closer relationship with God and finding time to study the Bible. Regular Bible study is a great way to strengthen your faith. You cannot know God unless you know His word. Reread the story of Jesus’ life, death, and resurrection – this should give purpose to your effort as it reminds you of His sacrifice and will for our lives. Think about how much he was willing to give, and compare it to how much you are willing to give. Remember, Christ gave all that we might live (Gal 1:4; John 3:16; I Tim 2:6; Titus 2:14).
Attending church and following his commandments seem infinitesimal when weighed against death and torture. And He not only wants us to obey Him in order to avoid eternal condemnation, but also to have a full life in Him, to glorify Him, and to lead others to Him. One of my favorite verses that inspires me to live for Jesus is Galatians 2:20: “I have been crucified with Christ; it is no longer I who live but Christ lives in me; and the life which I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave Himself for me.”
Besides regular Bible study, I have found that spending time in intense, thoughtful prayer and meditation also helps you to put things in perspective and prioritize. During this time, you might wish to consider the negative consequences of how you have been living and the benefits of returning to God. Pray for God to help you resist sin and continue to increase your desire to obey and follow Him.
Above all, you must have a sorrowful heart. Repenting of your sins is necessary in receiving God’s forgiveness. Luke 13:3 says, “I tell you no, unless you repent, you will all likewise perish.” We are all human and will therefore always have a fleshly desire to sin. But, if we are in Christ, we should have a new desire to live for Him and do what’s right. However, repenting doesn’t only involve being sorry for what you did. We should also confess our sins to someone who will lovingly hold us accountable for our actions. Satan has a harder time keeping us under his control when we’re not trying to hide our sins.
You must also turn away from sin. My dad often describes it as making a U-turn. If you say you’re sorry – and you may really be sorry – but you wake up the next day and continue what you were doing, your heart has not been changed. If peer pressure affects your effort, you may need to avoid being with those negative influences and become more involved in your church youth and ladies’ groups. Do not assume you can resist negative influence from others on your own. There is always the possibility that you will become more familiar with their habits and fall back into it, no matter how strong you are. That’s why it’s important to ask for God’s help. Good luck with your effort and I hope you will fully return to your life in Christ.
– Rachel Conley
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Psalm 51:10–12: “Create in me a clean heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me away from your presence and do not take Your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of Your Salvation and sustain me with a willing spirit.”
We become a hypocrite whenever we know how we are suppose to live or we have secret sins and yet we display ourselves as a righteous woman of God. If people would be shocked by our actions, words, or thoughts done in secret, then we know we are being a hypocrite. We can’t act godly and then go behind closed doors and commit our secret sins. God warns us what will happen to us if we do those evil things.
We also cannot continue in the same sin and expect God to forgive us repeatedly. We must be sincerely sorry and repentant in our prayers when we ask for forgiveness. Repent means to change. If we are sinning, and ask God to forgive us, we need to make sure that we are truly repentant, because God knows our hearts. Romans 6:1–2: “What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein?”
When I was a teenager, politics really didn’t interest me all that much. I couldn’t vote (until I was 18, of course), and I really didn’t pay any taxes because any money I paid was returned to me with a simple tax form every April. So, why should I care about all the uproar that goes along with choosing a candidate and showing support?
Whether you are old enough to vote for them or not, state representatives represent the people of their state, not just those over 18. If you have a concern or see something that needs changed, write your state representatives. Voting is not the only way to make a change. As Americans, all of us have the right and responsibility to make changes that will make our country better.
Christmas is over. The New Year is here. It seems as though it’s finally time for things to settle down. Now that parties with your friends are over, exams are behind you, and routine is becoming, well, routine again, gather your family, and settle in for an evening at home.
For the past two months we have studied and focused on the first six fruits of the Spirit:
The eighth piece of this great gift is gentleness. There is something special about your boyfriend when he is gentle and tender, right? I don’t necessarily mean mushy, but sweet and considerate. When I am sad or down, it means the world to me for my boyfriend to give me a hug or just let me talk about how I feel. His gentleness portrays the love that I know he has for me. I am always thankful for those times in our relationship.
be saving your relationship, because many times after sex the relationship is never the same and you can’t continue together. I suggest that you talk with your boyfriend and make the mutual decision to abstain from sexual activities until marriage to help protect your relationship. There is always the possibility that someone reading this may have been sexually impure before. What I want you to really understand is that there is still hope; there is always hope. God has promised forgiveness, but it’s up to you to take advantage of it.
When I was presented with this scenario, my first response was that I could not imagine being someone who suspected that was happening to a child in my care. But, I know it happens.
In a situation such as this, I recommend calling your local child protective services. No matter how you know the family or your relation to them, it is important that the family gets help. If you are unsure of how to contact your local CPS, you can check in the government section of the phone book, call a local police precinct and ask for it, or ask a parent or other trusted adult. You can also look it up online through search engines by typing “Children Protective Services” and then adding your state’s name. The greatest part about using CPS is that it allows you to remain anonymous. It will open an investigation, yet keep you from being targeted by the family as the person who alerted authorities. Again, remember that abuse is serious, and so is accusing someone of abuse. If you suspect abuse, don’t hesitate to call, as the child’s safety may be in danger, but never accuse someone of abuse, or call CPS as a joke, or to get back at someone you’re angry with. When you do contact them, they will want to know the specific signs that you are seeing. Make sure you are detailed in your description of the alleged abuse and that you let the person know you do not want to be identified.
Magazines are everywhere; they’re at the gas station, grocery store, and library, as well as regular occurrences in our mailboxes. Many of us often flip through them to look at the pictures and read a few of the articles without giving it a second thought, but maybe we should think twice.
Notice the difference. When you haven’t been reading those magazines for about a month, you’ll start to notice that you have a better self image (you’re no longer seeing airbrushed models), a purer mind (you’re no longer being encouraged to engage in sinful behaviors), and a cleaner heart.
“I have a great boyfriend who treats me decently and is a believer in Christ, but he’s not the coolest guy around. Should I let my peers’ words influence how I feel about this guy?”
Remember, Jesus was not a popular guy
Welcome to the new year! It’s a time of relaxation, renewal, and…resolutions. I’m sure you’ve been working on your list of habits to break, or establish, in your everyday life. Although I love the freshness of the new year, it can also bring on a challenging endeavor: to actually accomplish all of these new resolutions. While you may include exercising more, eating healthier, or getting better grades on this year’s To-Do list, I want to challenge you to not overlook one of the most important habits of all––spending time in God’s word. And while this may be a chore at first, I hope that it will soon become the one resolution you actually look forward to (unless you happen to love running and giving up sweets!). For those of you who have already been committed to reading your Bible daily, then begin the year by resolving to continue, even when life is busy and other things seem more important. And congratulations on already accomplishing the most difficult part of many resolutions, which is to start!
JAN 4 Rom 1-2
And sustain me with a willing spirit.”
“Restore to me the joy of Your salvation.” Are you joyful about the salvation we’re offered? That’s something we can rejoice in every day! This is much deeper and better than temporary happiness. We can take joy in all situations, no matter what the circumstances, just as Paul described in
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