Archives for September 2009

Fun Fact Friday: Play-Doh

FFFSept18September 18 is National Play-Doh Day!

Play-Doh started out at one color (off-white) in a 1.5-pound can. By 1983, there were eight colors, and in 2006, Play-Doh’s 50th anniversary was celebrated with 50 different colors of Play-Doh!

If your play-doh starts to dry out, there’s hope in reviving it! Just wrap it in a damp paper towel and return it to its container overnight. Or, you can knead water, one drop at a time, into the play-doh until it returns to its original state.

For more fun facts about Play-Doh, visit hasbro.com/playdoh.

Go here to browse play-doh recipes you can make at home. You can also look through this page for ideas on making your own play-doh creations (I love the cupcake!).

What’s your favorite thing about play-doh?

– Davonne Parks

Desktop Image: September 2009

If you’d like to have our theme image on your desktop this month, simply click on “standard” or “wide-screen” underneath the photo, then right click on the image and select “set as background.” Note: laptops are generally wide-screen, and desktops are usually standard images.

Pierce my heart in the small stuff, Matthew 5:18 “…until heaven and earth pass away, not the smallest letter or stroke shall pass from the Law until all is accomplished.”

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Health and Fitness: Fearfully and Wonderfully Made – Transformation

We recently discussed the importance of taking care of our bodies and today we’ll discuss renewing our minds.

Cyndi - Before3. A third lesson I have learned is that my transformation would be accomplished by the “renewing of [my] mind” (Romans 12:2).

“And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, that you may prove what is that good and acceptable and perfect will of God.” Romans 12:2

In regard to how I treated the God-given gift that is the human body, I had conformed to this world—the American culture, where 66 percent are overweight, with 33 percent being obese. When a person sets out to lose 100+ pounds, there is no doubt about it—they are wanting transformation. But I knew that I had failed miserably over and over again when trying to lose weight in the past. I knew I could never be transformed by my own power, and God showed me that even the help of Weight Watchers wouldn’t be enough. If I wanted transformation—lasting change from the inside out—then I needed the Romans 12:2 kind of transformation. There the Spirit of God tells us to “be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” This implies that transformation does not occur merely by an act of God. It requires personal effort—the effort to “renew the mind.” Obviously, over the years I had learned and accepted the lies of Satan in regard to my body. What I had to do was educate my mind, renew my mind about how God designed this body to use food and the best way to feed, exercise, and treat the body. As I educated myself and practiced what I learned, I have indeed transformed my relationship with my body, God’s gift to me.

In addition to learning about the care and feeding of the human body, mostly from Weight Watchers, I have also renewed my mind directly through God’s word. There are several passages that either directly talk about the body and/or food, or can be easily applied to it. The following passages have worked to transform me, and as Romans 12:1 says, prove that the will of God is good and acceptable and perfect.

From 1 Corinthians 6:13 and Philippians 3:19 I have learned anew that “food is for the stomach” and that I can make my belly a god.

Philippians 1:20 has taught me that I should live like Paul so that “I shall not be put to shame in anything,” but that Christ should “always be exalted in my body.” I looked in the mirror and knew that my self-abused body did not honor or exalt the Designer and Giver of life, and in this way worked to diminish Christ in the eyes of the world.

I Corinthians 10:31, which says, “Whatever you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God,” drove it home to me that how I relate to food can glorify God—or not.

Romans 14:15-17 vividly and boldly reminds me of the importance of paying attention to what and how much I eat, as it commands: “Do not destroy with your food him for whom Christ died.”

With the renewing of my mind has come a transformation evident in my physical body as well as my thinking. This Cyndi - Aftertransformation is evident in many small ways. Today:

  • I can get up from bed, a chair, the car, etc. without even thinking about it.
  • I can run up a flight of stairs.
  • I enjoy sweating from hard physical labor and exercise.
  • I am much stronger now.
  • I enjoy eating all kinds of vegetables now—even green beans.
  • I like cooking meals.
  • I choose to plant and tend a large vegetable garden.
  • I want to teach my children to care about nutrition and fitness.

In all of this I have proven to myself what the will of God is in regard to the body He gave me. It was designed to move with ease and work and accomplish what I desire to do physically. My other body couldn’t do those things and I had forgotten that part of the joy of life. It just causes me to glorify God.

Today I enjoy food, another gift from God, more than I ever have—because I eat a variety of it and really taste it. Today I can physically do what I never dreamed of doing before. I can do all this through Christ who strengthens me (Philippians 4:13). I give God the praise and glory for my weight loss. But I am not saying that God has worked a miracle in me. I have not lost weight supernaturally. My weight loss has occurred in direct proportion to the workings of the natural world—the ratio of calories into calories burned. Yet I know I have lost the weight because God has done His work in me as I confronted the truth: the way I treated my body dishonored Him and limited my ability to serve Him, and as I hid His Word in my heart He let it renew my mind and transform me.

For each of us, it is difficult to confront the truth about ourselves regarding the sins or other hindrances which keep us from fully serving God, from living the complete Christian life. Your encumbrance is likely completely different from mine—so let me encourage you to examine your life and see what it is that is holding you back in your spiritual service to God. When you are willing to lay that hindrance aside and move ahead in faith with God, then you can “be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” This will happen as you search out God’s Word and see what He has to say about your situation. What is His will for you as His creation, His child, His redeemed one. The information you need is in Scripture. Renew your mind by learning and taking on the mind of God, the mind of Christ, and in doing so you will prove to yourself and to the world just how good and acceptable and perfect the will of God is. And bring glory to His Name.

Psalm 139:14: I will give thanks to Thee, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Thy works, and my soul knows it very well.

By Cyndi Murphy

Health and Fitness: Fearfully and Wonderfully Made – Obedience

Cyndi - AfterPsalm 139:14: I will give thanks to Thee, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made; Wonderful are Thy works, and my soul knows it very well.

This verse has never meant more to me than it does right now.

This past Saturday God allowed me to enjoy an experience I would never have dreamed of 17 months ago. I jogged in a 5-mile cross-country trail run—through fields, woods, and across a creek twice! I jogged the whole 5 miles, never walking a step, and I did it in 59 minutes.

Over the past eighteen months my body has undergone a transformation as I’ve released 120 pounds and regained health. I am healthier now at 46 than I was at 26 and more fit than I was at 16. I am not telling you this to brag on myself or to beg for compliments and praise about how I look. I’m telling you this because I want to give the praise and glory to God for what has happened in the last year and a half. It would not have happened without Him. You see, it really hasn’t been my success—it has been God’s success, God’s victory, in me. It is what Christ has done in me. His works are wonderful [and my body] and my soul know it. During the past 18 months I have learned about nutrition, health, and fitness thanks to Weight Watchers and my sister, Tracy, who encouraged me to join; but more than that, I have learned some important spiritual lessons that I believe have been the key to my weight loss success.

1. The first and most important spiritual lesson I learned in this journey is that my body and what I do with it and to it matters to God (1 Corinthians 3:16-17).

To be honest, when I joined Weight Watchers I wasn’t convinced of that. I was initially pretty hesitant about involving God in my quest to lose weight. I resisted talking to Him about my desire to lose weight and ask for His help. I think there were three main reasons I was reluctant to go to God with this: 1) I worried I would just be using God like some kind of diet gimmick. 2) I figured if I prayed about it and then failed, I would open myself up to the temptation of blaming God for the failure and the state of my obese body. 3) If I prayed about it, I had to make a serious commitment to listen to God about His will in this and that meant being willing to obey as well.

But then the Lord confronted me with a scripture that really convicted me and made me see that this certainly was a matter to bring before the Lord. 1 Corinthians 3:16-17: “Do you not know that you are a temple of God, and that the Spirit of God dwells in you? If any man destroys the temple of God, God will destroy him, for the temple of God is holy, and that is what you are.”

My body is a temple. Paul says that God’s Spirit, the Holy Spirit, literally dwells in me. My obesity was destroying that temple. My 45-year-old body ached like it was 80 years old. I couldn’t get out of bed without a lot of effort and aches in my hips, knees, and feet. My hands hurt every morning. Getting out of a chair took work as I slowly straightened out Cyndi - Beforejoints. It was pitiful. I was too young to be so old. I knew I was only old because I had been abusing my body for years. In addition to aches and pains, I snored badly at night and didn’t sleep well; I had heartburn daily and ate Tums every night before bed. I was well on my way to be diagnosed with type 2 diabetes, if not heart disease. The poor food choices and amount of food I was eating were destroying my body. In 1 Corinthians 3:16-17, God said that my body as the temple of God is holy—and I was defiling it.

If that isn’t something to repent of and pray to God about, then I don’t know what is. Confronted by that passage, it became obvious to me that I had to involve God in this. Indeed, God desired to be involved in this. I could make my weight loss all about myself—or I could make it all about Him and through it bring Him the glory that for so long I had diminished. So I prayed in repentance for defiling His temple.

2.A second thing I have come to understand is that obedience to God in my life meant taking off the weight (Hebrews 12:1).

“Therefore we also, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of witnesses, let us lay aside every weight, and the sin which so easily ensnares us, and let us run with endurance the race that is set before us,” Hebrews 12:1

In the past year, the Lord has opened my eyes to just how much my obesity was literally what Hebrews 12:1 describes as a besetting weight—an encumbrance—that hindered me from running the race that was set before me. The Lord opened my eyes to the fact that if I didn’t get my body under control I would not be able to serve the Him well while I did continue to live on this earth. I was already too out of shape and too old in body to play with my children. I was so large I couldn’t hold a baby, a future grandbaby, comfortably and certainly couldn’t enjoy myself playing on the floor with a toddler. Moving around was exhausting. While my weight wasn’t yet really hindering my teaching ministry, I believe it presented a barrier to others as it screamed a lack of self-control (one of the fruits of the Spirit), which is not what a Christian should exhibit. There was also a desire I have had since I was 17 years old to do mission work. The Lord has not yet led me to that, but now that my youngest children are getting older, the idea of going on short-term mission trips appears to be within reach. But I knew that I was just too big to travel comfortably and knew that I would be miserable in primitive conditions without air conditioning and having to walk significant distances. So had I limited God’s plans for me? Would my work in the church be limited as I grew older because I had brought disease and pain into my life by my neglect or over-indulgence of my body? I came to see that as much as my weight hindered my service to and for God, clearly Satan was elated. I had already provided some victories for Satan in this area. How could I let that continue?

So I prayed and repented. I asked that God would help me to learn how to treat my God-designed body with the respect it deserves and to permit it a measure of recovery in dedicating it to His service. So now my weight loss really was less about me and more about Him.

We’ll continue soon with the next lesson, so please check back!

By Cyndi Murphy

Cooking Corner: Chocolate Chip Cookie Prayer

CC1Hannah Smith recently sent me the following recipe with this note attached: “I found this ‘Chocolate Chip Cookie Prayer’ paper that I got in a girls’ class at R.U.S.H. at Freed-Hardeman last year. It reminded me of something you and Lily would enjoy together…” Hannah knows us well, as baking is one of Lily’s and my favorite things to do together (and hopefully something Grace will also love as she grows older!).

The recipe proved to be fun and full of learning and insightful conversation, but if I ever make these again, I will probably use our favorite chocolate chip cookie recipe and use this recipe as a lesson guide.

Chocolate Chip Cookie Prayer

We are unsure who the original author of this recipe is, so if anyone knows, please tell us so we can give proper credit to the person who wrote it!

½ teaspoon vanilla
Adds flavor. Write down the names of the people who add flavor to your life. Pray that their creativity and talents will be used for God’s glory and that you will appreciate them and all they do for you.

1 cup flour

Thickens the mixture and slows the beating process. Pray for the people who you wish you could slow down and spend more time with. Ask God to help you make time for your loved ones.

½ stick softened butter
Saturated fat–unhealthy. Pray for the people who tempt you to do things you know you shouldn’t. Ask God to help you overcome the temptations and be a shining example to all.

½ teaspoon baking soda
Rising. Thank God for all the people who raise you up. Ask God to show you a way to thank these people and to show you a way to raise up your friends and family.

¾ cups sugar
Temporary or false satisfaction. Ask God to help you be a true Christian friend. Pray that He will surround you with true Christian friends.

CC31 egg
Solidifies. Brings it all together. Pray for the people who fill you spiritually and make you a stronger Christian.

½ teaspoon salt
Seasoning and preserving. Think of the people who you have trouble dealing with. Pray that God will take the “bad taste” out of your mouth and make you more tolerant of others.

6 oz. semi-sweet chocolate chips
The bonus. The prize inside. Pray for the people who make your life super special. Thank God for placing them in your life.

Directions:
Mix it all together, bake at 350F until golden brown, and thank God for your many blessings!

By Davonne Parks

BOOK GIVEAWAY: Feminine Appeal

MM2I love to read books. I have often begun and finished a book in less than two days. And I have an ever-growing list of books that I’d love to read. However, I also have all the duties that a mother of 3, wife, and homemaker include. And so, I’ve recently realized that I need to be very selective with what I choose to spend my time reading. Of course, the Bible should be my top choice. I think it’s important to put aside the novels and spend time reading books by godly people who desire for others to have a real relationship with God, doing His will and living to please Him.

One such author is Carolyn Mahaney. In addition to having a website for women, written with the help of her three daughters, she and her husband, C.J., have written numerous books about God’s word and our relationship with Him and others. One of those books, Feminine Appeal has recently touched me in a very deep way. After the recommendation by several friends, I bought the book and couldn’t put it down. Although it’s an easy read, it’s no easy read! The Holy Spirit used this book to convict me to examine the kind of wife and mother I am. I realized that I have so much growing to do, especially when interacting with my husband and children.

Feminine Appeal addresses seven virtues of a godly wife and mother, including loving our husbands and children, self-control, purity, kindness, and submission. Mahaney does a wonderful job of interpreting God’s word, using Titus 2 to show how God commands women to conduct themselves. This is an excellent book, one that you will refer back to again and again. Pray that in addition to His word, God will use this book to help you examine your attitude and relationships with others.

Giveaway

MM1Ready to read Carolyn’s book? We have a copy of Feminine Appeal to give away! To enter, leave a comment by September 29 telling us what you’d like to see discussed on Pierce My Heart, or tell us one of your favorite Christian books.

Comments are moderated, so they may take a day or so to appear. Make sure to include a valid e-mail address in your information (this will not appear in the post). The winner will be announced on September 30 and will be e-mailed with simple instructions on how to claim this prize. The winner must contact us back within seven days of our initial contact, or the book will go to someone else.

Thank you, Crossway Publishing, for donating a copy of this book to give away. May it bless other women and their relationships with God, their husbands, and their children.

By Lisa Grimenstein

Fun Fact Friday: School’s In!

FFFSept11The first public school was founded in Boston, Massachusetts, in April 1635 and all students were required to take three to four years of Latin! Public schools, however, didn’t become mainstream education until the mid 1800s. Most people received their instruction, including college instruction, at home until that time.

For more information, visit infoplease.com, wikipedia.org, or answers.yahoo.com.

Go here for free Bible-based printable school worksheets.

What is your favorite back-to-school activity or tradition?

– Davonne Parks

Deals and Steals: More Bang for Your Browsing

Search & WinIn the process of finding great deals, online and in-store, I do a lot of web searching. And I get a lot of deals. But what if I could be rewarded with deals just for searching on the Internet? I recently discovered that I can! Simply by searching from the Swagbucks home page, which uses Google and Ask.com as its search engine, I can earn “swagbucks” just for browsing online.

Now, I’ve known many of these “great deals” to be not so great. They actually turn out to be more of a hassle. But Swagbucks is so simple—and that’s what I like. After registering on their site, you simply start searching. Checking out eBay? Type it in to the Swagbucks search engine. Looking at the weekly Target ad? Get there via Swagbucks. By making Swagbucks my homepage, I use it to do all my searching.

You may be wondering why I would take this extra step to search. I do it for the bucks—swagbucks, that is. Randomly throughout your searching, you are awarded swagbucks–$1-5, $10, even $100 (haven’t seen that one yet!). Where it gets really simple compared to other award search sites is in the redemption of bucks. When you’ve reached a Swagbuck amount that will gain you a “prize” you’d like to purchase, simply click on the Swag Store link, and it will take you to a page where you can browse for prizes. From t-shirts and cell phone applications to gift cards (my favorite!), there are prizes for everyone. Follow the directions for obtaining your prize, then keep your remaining bucks and start accumulating again.

Search & WinIf you’re going to be online searching anyway, why not be rewarded for it with little effort on your part? Register at swagbucks.com and start being paid to search.

By Lisa Grimenstein

Family Fun: Family Night!

“For this reason I bow my knees before the Father, from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name… so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith; and that you, being rooted and grounded in love, may be able to… know the love of Christ which surpasses knowledge…” Ephesians 3:14-19

FF1One Tuesday evening, about three years ago, my husband and I decided to try our hand at homemade pizza. We put together the ingredients and allowed our then-one-year-old daughter to choose her own toppings. We ended up with an interesting mix of banana slices and Gerber fruit snack toppings (her favorite treats at the time). We proceeded to make a tent in the living room while the pizza baked, then we ate the pizza while watching a movie under the tent. I recall exclaiming, “This is so much fun! We should do this every Tuesday night!” Thus, Family Night in the Parks family was born. Through winter and summer, good weather and bad, we have continued the beloved Family Night activities. Some activities have been simple, such as playing board games in the living room, while others have been more involved, like going ice-skating or making ice-cream from scratch.

Family Nights can be accomplished for little or no money. Finances don’t matter—the idea is that, no matter what we’re doing, and how busy our lives are, we still take the time to have fun together. The following ideas are all activities that our family has done together multiple times and really enjoys. However, all families are different, so please use this list only as a guide for inspiration, then tailor the activities to suit the tastes of your own family.

The activities

Campout. One of our all-time favorite family activities is the family campout. We spread blankets across the living room for our tent, and set up our sleeping area underneath. We’ll pull our coffee table to one end of the tent so we can keep snacks off the floor and within easy reach. We made tie-dye shirts that we now wear as our unofficial camping gear, and we usually end our night by watching a family movie together.

Park hop. When the weather’s really nice, we’ll drive around to parks we don’t normally visit, like elementary school playgrounds, then play on the equipment with our kids. This is also a great opportunity for a picnic!

Sports. Whether it’s tossing a ball back and forth, a full-fledged game of kickball, or riding a bike around the block, being physically active together is a great way to stay fit as a family. Forget about keeping score, and just encourage togetherness and physical development—your child kicking the ball and running the bases properly for the first time is reason to celebrate!

FF2Bake. We all love to cook. We enjoy new recipes, and we have fun trying them out together. We’ll look for recipes online to make Chinese or Mexican from scratch (forget about seasoning packets – we make our own!), and we’ll try out tasty-sounding desserts, modifying the recipes so we can be more creative and make them our own way—then we enjoy tasting the recipes.

Band. My husband will pull out his old violin, I’ll sit at the piano, and our daughter will rotate between the two. We rarely practice our instruments, so the music is less than stellar, but our daughter loves every second and thinks we sound amazing, so it’s always fun! Any instruments – even a pot and a couple of spoons to make drums – can be used for this, as long as everyone is involved in some way.

Make something. We’ve painted, made pumpkin paper lanterns, created night-lights, and made lip gloss. Making something special that we can keep brings back good memories when we’re using the items!

What does your family love to do together? Leave a comment with your Family Night ideas!

By Davonne Parks

Friends: Playgroup—For Kids or for Moms?

Friends1Every week for the past two years, with few exceptions, I have faithfully attended…playgroup. Sure, my boys love playing with the other kids. And they learn valuable lessons in sharing and getting along with others. But most importantly, I go because of the moms. This group of women includes some of the most significant friendships I have. Not only can we share in the fun stuff, like couponing and hobbies, but we more importantly share with each other the trials and victories of motherhood and marriage. This is not the typical playgroup, where much time is spent complaining of daily chores and comparing our children’s talents and milestones. We encourage one another, not only in our hard times but also just to be more godly women, wives, and mothers.

Forming your own “mom’s group”

Gather some other moms. You need moms for a mom’s group, of course. Ask some of your friends if they’d like to join, but don’t limit it to that. Seek out a new mom at church who may need some encouragement, or ask a neighbor to join you. The group may work best with moms around the same stage of life, even if some are a little older or younger. Make sure you consider how many kids each mom has. If you have too many interested moms, you may need to split up and meet at two different houses or on two different days. Four to five moms and 8-10 kids is probably max—more than that can get a little crowded and chaotic.

Decide on a day and time. Once you have your group, get together and decide on a day to meet. Will you meet weekly? Bi-weekly? Moms with school-age kids may have more conflicts, or the freedom to come whenever. When you have a day, choose a time to meet. I definitely think that mornings are best. This is when the kids—and moms—are (hopefully!) well rested and in good moods. It allows plenty of time to be together before naptime breakdowns.

Friends2Plan the details. In my mom’s group, we have a schedule to alternate houses each week. The hostess always provides a morning treat and coffee for the moms. Decide whether the hostess will provide lunch for moms and/or kids, or if everyone will bring their own. Determine an approximate time when you will finish, or the kids will determine one for you (aka naptime breakdowns). Also, have a plan for the kids. Where will they spend their time? What are the ground rules? It may be a good idea to have moms take shifts to monitor the kids, or to keep kids in the same area as the moms.

Serve and encourage. The best part about the group is the encouragement and fellowship. We talk about everything! But the nice thing is that we hold one another accountable—we don’t come to complain about life, marriage, or motherhood. We encourage one another through tough times, and have a great time together. And we’ve recently started serving before we leave. In order to not leave the hostess feeling frazzled, we clean the kitchen and bathroom, and vacuum and mop floors. This allows the moms to host without feeling like they have to clean before—and after—each meeting.

After being in a mom’s group for more than two years, I can’t imagine life without this group of women who encourage and support me in so many ways. And as much as the play time is great for my kids, the far superior benefit for them is that I am gaining weekly encouragement and wisdom from godly women who desire for us all to have amazing relationships with our husbands, children, and God.

“Perfume and incense bring joy to the heart, and the pleasantness of one’s friend springs from his earnest counsel.” Proverbs 27:9

– Lisa Grimenstein