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Blue-Eyed Girl

Gifted Girls is featuring poetry this month, and new poems will appear throughout the week. To join in on next month’s theme, send a photo of something you’ve sewn, such as clothing, accessories, blankets, pillows, etc. Please submit photos by Sunday, March 29, 2009.

Blue-Eyed Girl

gg1A million tears run down her face
with all the fears that have yet to fade.
She wanted him to know
but she hasn’t yet to show.

Sitting in the sun, blue eyes crying.
Trying so hard to fake all her smiles.
She finally breaks down,
can’t move, all frowns.

Crying her heart out,
she has no where to turn.
With no one there to help her,
no one to care.

People walking by
looking her into the eyes.
Stopping, staring,
they don’t know what she has to hide.

Morning to night,
she puts up the fight to be strong.
Trying to move along with life
but it seems so hard.

Finding a new faith in God,
from day to night she prays.
She holds her head up high, thinking of the hope she has,
knowing something better will come her way.

The days go by and all the tears are gone.
She looks up into the sky thanking Him for all that He has done.
New tears of freedom and happiness run down her face, all the pain is gone.
All things happen in His time.

By Michelle Jane

What defines a Friend?

friends1Since this month’s theme is “Pierce my heart to live up to Your potential for me,” I thought it’d be appropriate to discuss the key qualities found in good friendships. While reading, honestly think about whether or not you are living up to what God wants you to be to your friends. We’re told in John 15:13 that, “No one has greater love than to lay down his life for his friends.” It can be difficult to imagine loving our friends enough to willingly die for them, and yet that’s the greatest love a friend can have! While it may be nice to have many friends, we also need to be discerning in choosing friends who share, or at least respect, our love and obedience for God. These are the friends who will encourage us in our walk with Him and who we can share conversation with about Him.

Other qualities of a true friend

A good friend is positive. Let me ask you something. When looking for a friend do you look for someone you can laugh with, have fun with, and enjoy being with? Or is it someone you can look up to and gain guidance, trust, encouragement and support from? More importantly, what kind of friend are you? Are you a friend who is trustworthy, kind, and encouraging? In order to have a good friend, we must first be a good friend, with a positive attitude.

A true friend is comforting in time of need. When friends cry, it’s good for you to be there to comfort them, whether it’s over a breakup, a family problem, or the loss of a loved one. Solid friendships are comforting, and can help us make it through difficult times. The biggest thing we can do to help may be to simply offer a shoulder to cry on. Second Corinthians 1:3-4 says, “blessed be the…God of all comfort, who comforts us.” Being there for a friend through thick and thin allows you to get closer to them, open up to them and help them to know they can open up to you.. Remember that sometimes even small gestures can have a great impact on someone’s life.

A friend is trustworthy. Trust is one of the most important qualities in a good friend. If there’s no trust, there’s no real friendship. If we feel that a friend is not trustworthy, they’re not the person we’ll go to when we really need someone there for us. True friends are the ones who offer the truth even if it’s difficult. Are you free to trust each other?

friends2A good friend is understanding. Good friends will have empathy for you, but they will not go as far as to pity you. They try their best in understanding what you’re going through and how you feel about it, while also trying to find the best way to help. Galatians 6:2 tells us to share each other’s trouble and problems, but we need to be careful that in sharing our problems, we’re not taking part in self pity or gossip. Do you empathize with your friends, and fully listen to them as they talk through their issues?

Be a friend

Allow God to work in your life, and ask Him to lead you to good friends, if He hasn’t already. Be patient, because His timing is best. When a potential friend crosses your path, allow them to see Christ in you, and live up to the full potential He has planned for you by being the best Christian example and friend you can.

Michelle Jane

Meditating Heart

Michelle Jane and Davonne Parks

Psalm 19:14 “Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart Be acceptable in Your sight, O LORD, my rock and my Redeemer.”

At the request of a good friend, I assisted in creating a poster with the above verse.

To fully grasp the meaning of the verse, I read the chapter surrounding it, and I especially appreciate the part about the meditation of my heart.  How often do we think we’re doing a great job as Christians, but still allow sinful thoughts to dwell in our hearts?

To truly be pleasing God, our hearts need to be meditating on, or thinking about, pure, godly things.

Let’s allow the message in those words to penetrate our minds, so that our hearts really will be acceptable to Him, because when our hearts are right, acceptable words will naturally follow (Luke 6:45).

– Davonne Parks

God is Love

2In order for us to love others the way God loves us, we must first understand a little about His love. First we’ll discuss how God loves us in times of sorrow and in times of joy. We’ll also talk about God’s love being a two-way thing; He desires for us to love Him too!

Romans 8:38-39: “For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

1) God loves us in times of sorrow.

A- God loves us when we hurt
God knows when we are hurting. He knows how we’re feeling and He knows our pain. Going through difficult situations may be hard to understand at the time, but often, once it’s over, we can look back and understand why things happened. There are times; however, when we don’t fully understand why but we can still choose to learn from those situations.

When we hurt, God hurts for us, and He’ll comfort us if we allow Him to. Second Corinthians 1:3-4: “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.”

B- God loves us when others hurt us
God created humans with the free will to make their own choices. If we didn’t have free will, we’d all be like robots, automatically doing everything we’re supposed to do without any choices to make at all. This free will allows us to make bad choices as well as good choices, and it allows others to make bad choices as well. Unfortunately, others may make bad choices that hurt us, whether it’s physically or emotionally. There is a poem, written by an anonymous author, about how someone else’s bad choices hurt her.

My Dad
Wishing there was a way to hide all the fear
Hoping you were the dad I wanted
h2h3Now that I know from the past thirteen years
But in the end its the fear that haunted

Marks to show the way he is pleading
From them; that’s the only way we bonded
Showing me my father had no meaning
Hate with no love is all that he wanted

Bruising to starving from the bad time then
Wanting to fit in but could not manage
Hoping his anger would just go dim
All the bruises that did the damage

Now I am glad that I’m out of your raft
For once, My life is going by fast

This girl’s father hurt her in terrible ways, and I’m sure that when she wrote this, she didn’t feel that God was close to her. In reality though, He was crying right there with her, longing for her pain to stop.

As much as it hurts us when others are hateful, it hurts God even more. As difficult as it is to do, if we endure the pain, we will get through it, and we will be stronger people because of it. First Peter 5:10: “But may the God of all grace, who called us to His eternal glory by Christ Jesus, after you have suffered a while, perfect, establish, strengthen, and settle you.”

Christ loves us through our pain, and if we lean on Him, not only will we get through the bad times, but we will fully overcome them and we will thrive because of Him.

C- God loves us when we sin
Sometimes we do things that are so terrible we don’t love ourselves, so we don’t think God can possibly love us. God does love us, though, and He’s waiting with open arms to welcome us back whenever we turn back to Him and ask for His forgiveness. First John 1:9: “If we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.”

Jesus died on the cross for our sins, and will take us back no matter what! There is no sin that is too big for Him to forgive, and no heartache that is too much for Him to bear. Colossians 1:13-14: “He has delivered us from the power of darkness and conveyed us into the kingdom of the Son of His love, in whom we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins.”

h2h5When we sin, we need God, and we need to ask His forgiveness for our sins, and allow ourselves to be reconciled to Him through the blood of Christ. Colossians 1:21-22: “And although you were formerly alienated and hostile in mind, engaged in evil deeds, yet He has now reconciled you in His fleshly body through death, in order to present you before Him holy and blameless and beyond reproach.”

When we ask God for forgiveness, we can ask Him to help others forgive us. If we’ve done something to hurt someone else, we also need to go to that person, confess our sin to them, and ask their forgiveness. After we’ve done that, we also need to forgive ourselves, and to learn from our sins so we don’t make the same choices in the future.

We also need to make sure to forgive others when they sin against us, because God forgives us in the same measure we forgive others. John 20:23: “If you forgive the sins of any, they are forgiven them; if you retain the sins of any, they are retained.” When we are unwilling to forgive others, it’s usually due to a problem with the ugliness and sin in our own hearts, which will also contribute toward making us feel unloved. We need to get rid of that ugliness, and allow ourselves to love enough to forgive others of their wrongs. There will be times when we will need the same grace from someone else, and we’ll be more likely to receive grace if we’ve been merciful to others.

We need to remember that God loves us no matter what. He hates our sin, but loves us, and wants us to feel loved and be obedient to Him so that we can enjoy the blessings He has to offer for our lives.

2) God loves us in times of joy

God rejoices with us and He wants us to share our joys with Him. Just as He knows when we’re sad, God also knows when we are happy. True contentedness and happiness can only be found in Christ. Without Him, there is a void that can never be filled. Philippians 4:6-7: “Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.”

h2h4God wants us to be happy, and He knows that true happiness can only be found in living a life that’s fully dedicated to Him. Colossians 3:14-15: “But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection. And let the peace of God rule in your hearts, to which also you were called in one body; and be thankful.”

3) God wants us to love Him

A- God deserves our love
Deuteronomy 30:20: “And that you may love the LORD your God, listen to his voice, and hold fast to him. For the LORD is your life, and he will give you many years in the land he swore to give to your fathers, Abraham, Isaac and Jacob.”

There are people who think that God has nothing to do with the life they’re living, the days that they survive, or even the time that goes by. God is in control and He has something to do with everything that happens to us––from how long we live, to how our life is at the time if we allow Him to be involved. God put all of us in this world for a reason. He wants us to know what having a life feels like, whether we want to accept it or not. He wants nothing more than for us to learn about Him, get to know Him, and allow Him to be in our lives. God deserves to be the center of our lives. He brought us here, and is showing us the world, letting us live amazing lives filled with different memories, whether they’re good or bad. Sometimes bad things happen to us, and we can’t change that, but we can choose how we handle ourselves in trying times. We can choose to love God. He deserves our love. Even though things won’t be perfect until we get to Heaven, if we choose to love and serve God, we will live content and fulfilling lives on earth, no matter what the circumstances. Romans 8:28: “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.”

B- God desires our love
God wants us to love Him. He sent Jesus to this earth to live a perfect life and die for our sins so that we can be made whole in Him. God loves us so much that He was willing to watch His son die so we could have the hope of eternal life. John 3:16: “For God so loved the world, that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him shall not perish, but have eternal life.”

We can’t fully enjoy God’s blessings unless we love Him, and He wants to give us those blessings!

C- God will take care of us when we truly love Him

3It’s important for us to understand that our lives can change in the blink of an eye. We could, at any minute of any day, lose our life. It could be from a horrible, unexpected accident, or we could die because of bad health. James 4:14 says, “Yet you do not know what your life will be like tomorrow. You are just a vapor that appears for a little while and then vanishes away.” Understanding who God is and what he stands for should really change our lives. It should affect us in so many ways, such as the way we live our lives, the way we talk, and how we dress.

Bad things will happen to all of us at times, but trust Him through the bad, too.  All things are in God’s hands, and His plans are always better than the plans we can make for ourselves.  Something good will come out of even the bad if we allow it to, just as we’re told in Romans 8:28 “And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose.”

First Corinthians 2:9: “but just as it is written, ‘THINGS WHICH EYE HAS NOT SEEN AND EAR HAS NOT HEARD, AND which HAVE NOT ENTERED THE HEART OF MAN, ALL THAT GOD HAS PREPARED FOR THOSE WHO LOVE HIM.’”

In conclusion:
We hope that you realize that God is love, as the Bible tells us in Romans 8:38-39: “For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor things present, nor things to come, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other created thing, will be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”

God loves us in times of sorrow and in times of joy. God wants us to love Him too, and to share that love with others. Mark 16:15: “And He said to them, ‘Go into all the world and preach the gospel to all creation.’” So, ladies, let’s be the best role models we can be in order to show others how God helps and loves us.

We hope that you’ll choose to share the love of God with others, so they can also learn about Him, love Him, and choose to follow Him. We should all live, and teach others to live, in a way that will give us the hope of one day entering the Kingdom of Heaven, according to the promise made in Jude 1:21: “Keep yourselves in the love of God, looking for the mercy of our Lord Jesus Christ unto eternal life.”

By Michelle Jane and Davonne Parks

New Life

I apologize for the delay in posting articles. I usually try to make the posts in advance so if life gets in the way, they will still appear at the proper time. Life has been happening, in a good way, more than usual lately, so even advance planning has been put to the side.

Curious as to what’s been happening? I am ten weeks pregnant with my second child! Lisa (the other editor) is also pregnant with her third boy, who is due in May! Many of you may not realize that Lisa and I are cousins, but we are, so our grandma is especially excited about adding two new great-grand- babies to the family. We’re also excited because as well as our oldest two being very close in age (only two months apart), these two will also be close in age. Visits are sure to be even more fun and busier than ever before!

New Life: Davonne and MichelleAnd, we have a new spiritual life as well! Michelle Jane, who has attended my church for several months, and has done some volunteer work for the magazine was baptized into Christ today! I’m so excited to have a new sister in Christ!

I appreciate all of you for being so understanding when other things delay magazine work for a few days. We do have several great January articles ready to go, including a fun giveaway, just waiting to be posted, so stay tuned because all of you are in for a real treat for the rest of the month!

Davonne Parks

2008 Desktop Images

These images are made using the key scripture each month. Click on “standard” or “wide-screen” underneath the photo you want to save as your desktop image. Right click on the image and select “set as background.” Note: laptops are generally wide-screen, and desktops are usually standard images.


December 2008, Edited by Davonne Parks – Standard or Wide-screen

November 2008, Edited by Davonne Parks – Standard or Wide-screen

October 2008, Edited by Davonne Parks – Standard or Wide-screen

September 2008, Edited by Davonne Parks – Standard or Wide-screen

August 2008, Edited by Davonne Parks – Standard or Wide-screen


July 2008
, Created by Michelle Jane – Standard

June 2008, Edited by Davonne Parks – Standard or Wide-screen

Phone Photos

Psalm 19:14 “Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in Your sight, O LORD, my rock and my Redeemer.”

Photos were taken with the camera phone of Michelle Jane.

Click on photos to enlarge.

Poster Verse

Several girls made a poster of their favorite Bible verse, and this month we’d like to share them with you.  If you feel inspired to create a poster of your own, please e-mail us a photo of the finished product!  Click on the photos to enlarge.

Alexia Hammonds

Alexia Hammonds

Michelle Jane and Davonne Parks

Michelle Jane and Davonne Parks

Anna Parks

Anna Parks

Rachel Conley

Rachel Conley

Sarah Brown

Sarah Brown

Davonne Parks

Davonne Parks

Tori Gambill

Tori Gambill

Meet the Staff

Davonne Parks is the executive editor and a writer for Pierce My Heart. She has been married to the “tech guy,” Nathan, since August 2004, and they have two daughters, Lily and Grace. Davonne started this magazine because she has a desire to help teen girls get excited about Christ! Davonne has grown up in the church and, while far from perfect, strives to be Christ-like and have His love show through her. Davonne loves spending time with her family, traveling, chocolate, the color pink, baking, being outside, 50s diners, clean romantic comedies, and working with the Pierce My Heart staff.

Lisa Grimenstein is the assistant editor for Pierce My Heart, as well as a writer. She married her husband, Adam, in June 2001, and they have three boys, Noah, Drew, and Sam. Lisa has gone to church her entire life, but is still maturing every day. She has a desire to be a godly woman, wife, mother, and friend, and an obedient daughter of her Father. Nothing clears her head more than talking to God. Lisa is a freelance copyeditor/proofreader from home, so that she can stay at home and be a mom to her boys. She loves being with her family and friends, reading, cookouts, baking, the smell of spring, and Jane Austen movies.

nathan

Nathan Parks is Pierce My Heart’s site maintenance technician. Nathan also hosts the site, is interested in technology and electronics, and is responsible for keeping the site running and updated. When he has free time, he’s either working on his latest tech project, spending time with his family, or wrenching on his current project vehicle.

Carol Gartman is the the marketing manager for Pierce My Heart and the head columnist for “Heart to Heart.” She and her husband Paul, combined, have seven children and seven grandchildren. Carol accompanies her husband as he preaches each Sunday. She loves spending time with her family, and enjoys flower gardening, sight-seeing, old movies, painting, piano, and nature. Carol is passionate about this magazine because she feels a great desire to reach out to teen girls and to hopefully help them to make wise choices.

Rachel Conley currently writes the “A Girl Like You” advice column. She enjoys running, playing soccer, reading, and spending time with her boyfriend. She was fortunate to grow up in the church and to be raised in an amazing Christian family. She chose to write the advice column because she wishes to share the advice given to her by the godly women she has been blessed to know. She hopes that her column will help the readers to live happier Christian lives.

Sarah Ancheta has been a Christian since 1996. She is married and has a wonderful little boy. Sarah writes for the “Tough Stuff” and “In the World” columns. Sarah has been through many difficult situations and hopes to help others cope with problems they are having. Sarah also enjoys politics and hopes that she can better help teens and young adults see how politics affects them and introduce ways to get involved.

john-brownJohn Brown is the writer for the “Spread the Word” column. He and his school-teacher wife, Dana, are raising six children: Sarah, twins Sam and Shyler, Jacob, Davis, and Allison. John graduated with a BA from Harding University in 1984, double majoring in history and Bible. His interests include history, politics, his farm animals, old stuff, flea markets, and most of all his family. He likes to watch Hogan’s Heroes, The Rockford Files, the Three Stooges, and old movies, and likes to listen to Bluegrass music.  John picks the banjo (but not as well as he plays the radio), and he likes being a preacher and only having to “work” on Sundays.

Shelby Garrett is the writer for “Dating.” Shelby has been a member of the church since 2003 and she is blessed with a great family and many friends. She enjoys playing softball, football, rappelling, reading, being with friends, and playing the piano. She spends her time doing a variety of things, but her main priority is serving God. Shelby hopes that by being a member of this staff she will touch the lives of many Christians and help bring more people to God.

Alexia Hammonds is the writer for the Cooking Corner. She loves to cook and will try any crazy food at least once. She also loves to sing, and loves to talk. If given the chance, she guarantees that she can somehow get anyone to laugh. She’s creative, on the artsy side, and writes poetry, paints, and sometimes draws. She’s an avid reader–if she didn’t have books, she would be lost. Alexia’s been a Christian since 2002. She is active in her youth group and loves to volunteer her time to anyone in need.

Sherri HoumardSherri Houmard is the writer for the Health and Fitness column. She married her husband, Chris, in July 2005. She considers herself blessed to have grown up in the church, and longs to become more Christ-like. She loves good Bible studies and strives to be like the “virtuous wife” in Proverbs 31 for her wonderful husband. Sherri is a labor and delivery nurse, and delights in seeing God throughout the entire process. She is excited to be a part of this staff, and hopes to help people live healthy lives and grow closer to God. She loves spending time with her friends and family, being outside, traveling, reading, all four seasons, ice cream, and making people laugh.

michelleMichelle Jane is the writer for the Friends column, and she submits photos and poetry to Pierce My Heart. She chose to write for Friends because she enjoys making new friends, helping others, and teaching her friends about God’s love. She understands that our friends have a large impact on our lives, and she wants to express that understanding, and give ideas for new ways to have fun with friends, in this column. Michelle loves playing backyard sports, especially football, the color purple, and Dairy Queen french fries.
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Megan Skinner is the writer for the “Top Ten.” She is interested in forensic science and has worked for a degree in that field. She hopes to get job working in a forensic lab. She became a member of the church in 1994. She enjoys hanging out with her family and friends in the church. Her interests include reading (especially fiction), cross-stitch, and racquetball.

hannah-smithHannah Smith is the devotional writer for Pierce My Heart. She loves seeing God everywhere and in everything! She tries each day to let God work through her, and she wants to become more like Christ every day. Hannah is very thankful for God’s care, blessings, strength, and grace–and her amazing Christian family. She likes to sing, bake cookies, make people smile, go camping, laugh, blog, study the Bible, and just take the life she lives for Him one day at a time. Hannah hopes that what she writes will inspire girls to commit their lives fully to Him, and grow closer to their Father.