Q. “How can I know I’m making the best choice about choosing which college to attend?”
-Anonymous
A. Having just chosen a college for myself, I can sympathize with you on this topic. It was one of the most difficult decisions I’ve ever had to make. Which college I attend helps determine my entire future, like who my friends are, what my major is, where I live, and even who I marry. That is why it is important to carefully and prayerfully consider your options.
Some of the things I considered when choosing the college I wanted to attend were location/distance, atmosphere, size, and cost. Consider how far you want to be away from home; do you want to be able to come home on weekends or do you like being independent and only coming home on breaks? Also, what kind of atmosphere do you prefer? Would you like to go to a public school? Or would you rather attend a Christian school?
Another aspect that can affect your college choice is size. Do you feel comfortable in large groups where you can see new faces everyday and experience anonymity? Or do you like the closer environment of a smaller private school, where it seems everybody knows everybody? Of course, one of the most prominent factors that determines which college you attend is the cost. If you are offered a scholarship from a certain school, it might influence you to go there.
If you are having difficulty choosing a college, pray to God that you make the best choice. Pray for the wisdom to make the decision that will be best for you. God hears the prayers of the righteous (Proverbs 15:29) and wants us to pray when we are afflicted so that He may guide us in our decision making (James 5:13). You can also seek advice from older people you trust. Ask alumni from the colleges you are considering what they thought of the school.
Also, be sure to go on college visits. These are usually well-structured tours that allow you to visit dorms and classrooms. There is no better way to decide if you feel comfortable on campus and could see yourself spending the next few years there. I hope these tips aid you in your search for your perfect school. And remember that regardless of where you choose to go, the most important thing is to glorify God.
Good luck!
Rachel Conley
Choosing the right college can be tough. I like the tips you have here though, and I think they would help a lot. For me, public school is fine, and I want to be close enough to home that I can go back once or twice a month. Also, if you know what you want to do, choosing a college based on your major is a good idea.