Congratulations: July Giveaway Winner

August 3, 2009 3 Comments

I apologize for the delay in posting the winner of July’s giveaway. My daughter decided to come three weeks early and was born on July 25, so I’ve been a little preoccupied this past week!

jft8The random winner of our bag of beauty supplies is Sarah (gal4birdz@)! You should have an e-mail from Pierce My Heart in your inbox. If not, please contact us within seven days to claim your prize.

Thanks to everyone who participated in this contest by leaving comments on our article. If you didn’t win this month, please try again in August, because we have another fun giveaway coming up.

Congratulations, Sarah! We hope you enjoy your new beauty products!

– Davonne Parks

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Our Bridegroom

August 3, 2009 Leave a Comment

“A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies.” (Proverbs 31:10)

This month’s theme is “Pierce my heart for marriage,” and it’s remarkable how much of our reading for this month is related to it.

extra9Luke 23–24 focuses on Jesus’ death and resurrection. Many times in Scripture, Jesus is referred to as our Bridegroom (Matthew 9:15). As we see at the end of Luke, He made the ultimate sacrifice to show His love for us––He gave His life for us. He commands all husbands to sacrificially love their wives, just as He loved the church (Ephesians 5:25).
Just “as a bridegroom rejoices over his bride, so will [our] God rejoice[s] over [us]” (Isaiah 62:5). How awesome to have Someone Who loves us so much and rejoices over us!

However, we do not always respond to God with such appreciation for this sacrificial love. The book of Hosea compares Israel’s love for God to that of a harlot, as Israel is constantly unfaithful to Him, never valuing what He has done for her. And yet, God does not ultimately abandon Israel, regardless of her desire for other loves.

In this month’s reading of the gospel of John, we encounter several occasions when Jesus dealt with weddings and marriages. In John 2, He performs His first miracle, changing water into wine at a wedding feast. In chapter 4, He speaks to a Samaritan woman at a well––not acceptable for a Jewish man to do––confronting her about her sinful behavior regarding men and marriage. Whether in marriage or not, we are commanded in God’s Word to be sexually pure (1 Thessalonians 4:3, 7), avoiding sexual immorality.

Proverbs not only addresses women and wives, but it also gives wisdom that, while pertaining to all relationships, applies to marriages entirely. It tells us that a wise woman builds up her house (Proverbs 14:1). Proverbs 15:1 gives wisdom from which every person could profit: “A soft answer turns away wrath, But a harsh word stirs up anger.” It is often easy to use harsh words toward our spouses, stirring up anger and resentment. These harsh words often result from impatience and keeping track of past wrongs, which Scripture tells us is not a characteristic of godly love (1 Corinthians 13).

As women and wives, we have the power––and responsibility––to control the environment in our homes. And it is a big responsibility. Our attitudes can affect those of our husbands and children. Proverbs 17:1 tells us: “Better is a dry morsel with quietness, Than a house full of feasting with strife.” As wealthy as we may be, or as many things as we may have, it is only strife if the home does not put God first.

As many wonderful books as there are available on marriage, there is one we should go to first in order to find out what makes a godly, successful marriage––God’s Word. The Bible is filled with His commands for marriage, and His example of sacrificial love. Whether we are married or not, we only have to go so far as to His Word to discover what makes a wife who is pleasing to God.

By Lisa Grimenstein

dbr11Suggested Reading for August

AUG 1 Luke 23-24
AUG 2 1 Thes 4-5
AUG 3 Lev 22-24
AUG 4 2 Kings 21-25
AUG 5 Ps 90-92
AUG 6 Prov 14-15
AUG 7 Ezek 43-48
AUG 8 John 1-2
AUG 9 2 Thes
AUG 10 Lev 25-27
AUG 11 1 Chr 1-4
AUG 12 Ps 93-95
AUG 13 Prov 16
AUG 14 Dan 1-6
AUG 15 John 3-4
AUG 16 1 Tim 1-3
AUG 17 Num 1-4
AUG 18 1 Chr 5-9
AUG 19 Ps 96-98
AUG 20 Prov 17-18
AUG 21 Dan 7-12
AUG 22 John 5-6
AUG 23 1 Tim 4-6
AUG 24 Num 5-8
AUG 25 1 Chr 10-14
AUG 26 Ps 99-101
AUG 27 Prov 19
AUG 28 Hosea 1-7
AUG 29 John 7-9
AUG 30 2 Tim 1-2
AUG 31 Num 9-12

This year’s Bible reading plan was borrowed from BibleReading.com. (To correspond with the 2009 year, we have included actual dates for your referral. You may choose to use the above site, instead.)

Filed Under: Daily Bible Reading

Pierce my heart for marriage

August 1, 2009 Leave a Comment

Hebrews 13:4 “Marriage is to be held in honor among all…”

This month

desktopimageOur theme is about marriage this month, and we’ll include everything from choosing a spouse, to wedding hair and helping on the big day, to being a godly wife after we say the “I Do’s.” All of the volunteers have worked hard to put together the summer edition of the magazine, and we hope you’ve enjoyed our articles about career and college in June and July, and that you’ll also benefit from our marriage articles this month.

New Direction

When the idea for the magazine was formed in January 2008, Lisa had two children and I had one. We were both planning on homeschooling our children, but that seemed very far away. Since that time, we’ve both added an additional child to our families (her third son was born in May; my second daughter was born in July), plus we will begin homeschooling next month. We are much busier with our home and family lives now than we were when we began the magazine, and being managers of our homes needs to be our top priority (Titus 2:3-5).

We’ve also lost several of our teen writers to the busyness of school and jobs, and while we’ve added a few new writers, we’re still writing many of the articles ourselves each month. We’re also both becoming further and further removed from the teenage group as our families grow and our energy and time is directed toward being godly wives and mothers, so we’re finding it increasingly difficult to write relevant teen articles each month.

We do, however, love the ministry of an online magazine, and the amount of hits the site receives each day suggests that this ministry is reaching many people. The type of comments and e-mails we’ve received about the magazine leads us to believe that our largest audience is not the teen girl audience we were originally striving to reach, but instead the majority of our audience seems to be mothers and young women. And the more we try to attract teens (giveaways, dating articles, etc.), the more we seem to attract the women in our stage of life!

news2So, after much thought, prayer, and discussion, Lisa and I have decided that beginning on September 1, 2009, Pierce My Heart will change directions–we will still be an online magazine, but we will no longer be geared toward teens. We will instead change our format and our articles to reach a new target audience of stay-at-home Christian mothers. The new format will be simplified to make the magazine more flexible and less time consuming, so we can spend more time focusing on our families, and more time working on our own spiritual lives so that we can be the godly wives and mothers God wants us to be.

We will have a “Teen Scene” column on the magazine, which will include the majority of the articles for and by teens. We are planning on continuing this column as long as the teen writers choose to continue assisting in the new direction of this ministry.

The articles this month will still be geared toward our original target audience of young women, but you will notice changes to the overall look and format of the magazine, as we’re preparing to change things to better accommodate mothers of young children. These changes will happen gradually over the next two months, so we can have everything in place by the end of September to begin our new direction.

Your input

We would love to receive your input, thoughts, and suggestions of ideas, columns, or topics you’d like to see (or things you’d like to stop seeing) on this magazine in the future. You can either leave your thoughts in a comment below, or contact us with your suggestions.

Thank you for your continued support and encouragement as we begin a new chapter of our ministry with Pierce My Heart.

Davonne Parks

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Desktop Image, August 2009

August 1, 2009 Leave a Comment

If you’d like to have our theme image on your desktop this month, simply click on “standard” or “wide-screen” underneath the photo, then right click on the image and select “set as background.” Note: laptops are generally wide-screen, and desktops are usually standard images.

Pierce my heart for marriage, Hebrews 13:4 “Marriage is to be held in honor among all…”

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August 2009, Edited by Hannah Smith – Standard

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Backyard sports!

July 31, 2009 1 Comment

friends1Tons of fun can come out of playing backyard sports—football/flag football, ultimate frisbee, wiffle ball, tennis, volleyball, basketball, soccer, and even ultimate football. Each sport has its own set of rules, own way of having fun, and own techniques in playing.

Playing the game

Planning when to play the game is the most important part. Most of us don’t want to play wiffle ball or football outside in the snow . The many places you can play theses sports are at graduation parties, church drop-ins, birthday parties, or just whenever you want to play. When deciding which game to play you need to check the weather. If it’s beautiful outside you could play any of the games I listed above, and if it rains or snows you can play certain games inside, like volleyball or basketball.

Safety

Unlike high school football, backyard football doesn’t involve wearing gear like shoulder pads or leg pads; instead, you only have your clothes to protect you from the tackles. When it’s chilly outside you may want extra layers, like an underarmor shirt underneath your regular t-shirt, or long sleeves. If it’s hot outside you’ll want to wear a simple tee shirt and a pair of shorts.

Picking the team

When picking who you want on your team, don’t just choose your best friend. Choose other people to be your teammates so you can get to know them better. Remember to keep a good attitude–regardless of whether you win or lose, everyone should be a good sport and enjoy playing the game while growing closer together.

By Michelle Jane

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Suicide

July 30, 2009 Leave a Comment

ts1Suicide has been a topic I’ve wanted to cover for a long time. But, I chose this month for a reason. Suicide is the second leading cause of death among college students. The number one reason for this is untreated depression (go here for more on depression). Like any death, suicide does not only affect the one who is lost, but also the family and friends of that person.

I have known several people who have committed suicide or attempted to. At times when someone feels scared, alone, and depressed their minds don’t always look for the most reasonable solution to a problem…they simply look for a way out. What these individuals don’t realize is that suicide is not a way out. It does not fix a problem, but causes new ones for those left behind.

How do I know if someone is contemplating suicide?

You won’t always know if someone is. Many times people who are suicidal are withdrawn, isolated, and have symptoms of depression. But, it is important that you talk to people who seem to be depressed. You don’t have to ask them if they are suicidal, you don’t even have to ask them about depression. But be a friend. Be someone that they will be comfortable confiding in so that if they decide to, they can share their feelings with you. Share Christ with them. I know it is hard to talk to others about Christ, but in times of need, there is no other friend they need as much as they need Him.

What do I do if someone tells me they want to kill themselves?

Always take them seriously. Don’t laugh them off or yell at them. Talk to them about how important they are to you and how bad situations do get better…it just takes time. Offer to call for help for them. Help them find a counselor, and talk to a trusted, mature Christian for advice on how to better handle the situation. Most importantly, pray with and for them. Let them know that when it seems all hope is lost, Christ is always there.

If the situation is more advanced and the person is threatening themselves right then, call 911. Do not hesitate even if the person begs you not to call for help. If the person threatens violence upon you, leave and get to a safe place before calling 911. Remember that although you want to save this person, you can’t save them if you don’t protect yourself.

Seeking Help

ts2There are many different suicide helplines across the country. Suicide.org is a great organization that helps set up suicide prevention organizations in colleges and universities across the country (if yours doesn’t already have one). Their website offers tips on what to look for if you suspect someone is suicidal and also offers a 24-hour toll free hotline at 1-800-SUICIDE. If you or someone you know has suicidal thoughts, please call that number, or if in immediate danger, seek help by calling 911.

“Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn of me; for I am meek and lowly in heart: and ye shall find rest unto your souls.” Matthew 11:28-29

By Sarah Ancheta

Filed Under: Tough Stuff

Last chance for entries!

July 29, 2009 Leave a Comment

Bracelet created by Hannah SmithToday is the last day to submit photos of jewelry you’ve made for use in our Gifted Girls article next month. You can send pictures to Info @ PierceMyHeart . com (remove spaces).

This is also the last day to enter to win our July giveaway. The winner, who will be announced on July 31, will receive a bag of beauty supplies.

If you have any questions, please let us know, and we will respond to you as quickly as possible.

– Davonne Parks

Filed Under: Just for Today

The Eyes Have It

July 28, 2009 Leave a Comment

Ecclesiastes 11:7: “Light is sweet, and it pleases the eyes to see the sun.”

One size does not always fit all. You know that to be true about clothing, but it also applies to other things. With the more pleasant weather, many of us are venturing outdoors. And you may be realizing that it’s time to update an essential part of your summer wardrobe––sunglasses. But before rushing out to the store to grab the cutest, trendiest pair, consider which ones will best work for you.

Comfort matters

Vera Wang rectangular sunglasses, available at Kohl’sObviously, one of the first things to consider when buying a new pair of sunglasses is comfort. I’ve bought many pairs that were perfect in the store, but when I got home and started wearing them, they were awful. They were too tight, giving me a headache. Or they seemed to sit crookedly on my face, bothering me the entire time I wore them. Even though I don’t pay a lot for sunglasses, if they are not comfortable to me, they are never a good deal. Make sure you spend a decent amount of time wearing the glasses in the store to get the best idea of how they’ll fit. Wear them home with the tags on so that if you notice that they start to get uncomfortable during the ride home, you can take them back. If you’ve already removed the tags and find yourself cringing every time you have to put them on, offer to give them to a friend who might have better luck with them.

Price matters

Yes, there are $150 pairs of sunglasses out there that are great. And stylish. And come in a cute case. And cook dinner. But, consider how worth it they are if you accidentally sit on them in your car. Or lose them at the mall. I have friends who are constantly ruining sunglasses by leaving them on the seat of their car and then sitting on them later. It’s much easier parting with the $10 sunglasses than it is the $100 pair that was so necessary just weeks before.

Style (kinda) matters

I say “kinda” because, while there are certain sunglasses that look better with specific face shapes, you can certainly buy whichever glasses you like best. Style might matter to you, but it shouldn’t be our ultimate objective. But since it’s nice to have a place to start, here are some tips for shopping for sunglasses for your face shape.

Start by looking in a mirror. Using a lipstick or lip liner pencil, trace the shape of your face. You should come up with an oval, circle, square, or triangle.

If your face is oval:

Congratulations! You have a very versatile face shape. More sunglasses look good with this shape than any others. You could go with round or square frames. Just make sure the size of the frames is proportionate to your face size. Meaning: If you have a small face, don’t buy oversized frames, or your face will get lost behind them.

Sonoma oval sunglasses, available at Kohl’s

Sonoma oval sunglasses, available at Kohl’s

If your face is round:

To minimize the fullness of a very round face, opt for frames that are more angular. Square frames or ones with straight lines are your best bet.

Vera Wang rectangular sunglasses, available at Kohl’s

Vera Wang rectangular sunglasses, available at Kohl’s

If your face is square:

Opposite rule applies here: To soften a square, angular face and jawline, go with frames that are slightly curved. A square or rectangular frame will make your face look harsh.

Merona small oval sunglasses, available at Target

Merona small oval sunglasses, available at Target

If your face is triangular:

This face shape is defined by a broader forehead and narrow jawline and chin. Go with thinner frames to balance the bottom part of your face. Avoid heavy, thick frames, or very bold colors.

Adi Designs frameless sunglasses, available at Target

Adi Designs frameless sunglasses, available at Target

Time to go shopping!

For more on sunglasses for your face shape, search online or visit Frames Direct.

Having a friend along will help you to judge which sunglasses work best with your face. Don’t just consider frame size and shape. The color of the lenses is also important when thinking about your complexion. So, grab a tactfully honest friend and head out to accessorize your face.

By Lisa Grimenstein

Filed Under: Beauty Buzz

Distance Learning

July 27, 2009 Leave a Comment

itw1When someone thinks about college, usually going to classes online is not something that comes to most people’s minds. However, distance learning has some great advantages for those who are unable to go to a campus for school. For me, it has proven to be an excellent choice. I graduate with my associates in September and begin my bachelor’s program a week later. But, just because I study at home does not mean it is easy. I work hard, I study, I have to do research and write long papers. But, like any other school, I know the hard work will pay off.

How do I know if distance learning is for me?

If you are someone who works full time or have children, distance learning offers the greatest advantages for you. I was able to go to school online from the comfort of my home, after I had worked during the day. When I was pregnant, I was able to continue my education while on bed rest. But, contrary to what most believe, distance learning is not only for those who fit these circumstances. Many students just out of high school are beginning to use online classes. In fact, many community and state colleges are offering more and more classes in an online atmosphere. It saves on travel expenses and college or campus housing.

What are the advantages and disadvantages of distance learning?

Distance learning offers students quality education and the ease of receiving it from their home. However, it does have some drawbacks. Distance learning costs considerably more than conventional state or community colleges. Distance learning is also based on written communication. While different schools offer different types of classes depending on your field of study, some schools do require that students work in teams so that they learn to communicate through written and verbal communication (a telephone or voice messaging system is required).

Does distance learning accept financial aid?

itw2Yes. Online colleges or universities accept government financial aid and student loans, as well as payments from students.

What equipment do I need to attend online classes?

Different schools may require different software, but you would definitely need to make sure that you have access to a computer with internet access that is reliable and meets speed requirements for the program you have chosen. Most programs also require that you have computer software that consists of Microsoft Word, Excel, and PowerPoint.

How do I start?

The first place to start is to research schools with online learning programs. You need to make sure that the career field you have chosen is included in their program. Also, make sure that any school you choose is accredited. Programs with courses that are not accredited may not transfer to another school if you need to change classes or decide to go to a campus to learn.

Making the right decision for you

Choosing a career or even the college that will help you reach your goals is a very hard decision. Like any decision in our lives it is important to make sure that we allow God to lead us. Only with Him can we truly achieve our goals (Matthew 19:26).

By Sarah Ancheta

Filed Under: In the World

Financially Savvy: Shopping and Scholarships

July 25, 2009 Leave a Comment

fam1We recently discussed dining and credit cards, and today we’ll continue with financially savvy tips about shopping and scholarships.

Thrifty shopping

I used to hate shopping at thrift stores like Goodwill. I liked going to a store and finding the style shirt I wanted and quickly locating my size on the nice, clutter-free rack. But then I realized how great––and inexpensive––my thrift-store finds could be. I can almost always find great name-brand clothing in like-new condition for $4 or less. Do you realize how many outfits I could come up with for the amount I’d spend on one pair of pants at the actual store? And no one can tell the difference. I recently bought a $60+ pair of Gap pants for $2 at Goodwill. Lots of compliments––especially when I tell people how little I paid for them.

Scholarships

There are scholarships out there for everything. Sports, academics, ethnicity, hobbies, interests, accomplishments…the list could go on and on. And with the Internet, these scholarships are very easy to find. Unfortunately, many of them are never given away because no one applies for them. Scholarships are one of the best ways to help pay for college. There are thousands available. I recommend looking for legitimate scholarships online and applying to as many as possible. Most will require an essay––or several––but the time spent writing one could really pay off. Even if you only receive a handful of scholarships from the dozens you apply for, that is money that you won’t have to pay yourself. And if you’re not starting college until next year, this is the perfect time to start looking for scholarships. Don’t wait until the last minute (although, if you have, don’t let that stop you!). Record the deadline for each scholarship, and mark them in your favorites on your computer. You don’t have to be a freshman to get a scholarship, so even if you’ve already finished some school, keep applying to make the rest of your time at college financially easier.

Financially fit

fam3Although school is costing much more now than ever, there are plenty of ways to cut the costs of college. Start now by being responsible with your money––the money God has given you. Be creative and thoughtful with your spending, and hopefully you will leave college in a few years more financially fit than when you started.

“Keep your lives free from the love of money and be content with what you have, because God has said, ‘Never will I leave you; never will I forsake you.’” Hebrews 13:5

Have any tips for saving money or frugal spending while in college? Leave a comment and let us know!

By Lisa Grimenstein

Filed Under: Generation Gap
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